Did you grow up with birthday traditions in your family? Since I grew up in Florida and my birthday is in December, I always remember having fresh squeezed orange juice from the oranges from the tree in our backyard on my special day. That, and my mom taking me shopping.
If you are thinking about starting some traditions with your kid(s)– something they can count on and look forward to every year, here are some great suggestions. Pick one or more and have fun with it– as long as it’s special to you both, it could have the same impact as a yearly party. {via Calgarys Child}
1. Rise and shine. Wake kids up on their birthday not with, “Get up! It’s time for school!” but with an extra long snuggle and the condensed version of the day they were born. Who doesn’t like to hear their birth story?! Adopted and foster children can be told how they were meant to be brought into the family and how special they are.
2. Birthday letter. Type up a birthday letter for each child telling them what great things they did and said and learned during the past year. Give the birthday child a copy, then save a copy in a binder and on the computer because we all know kids can’t keep track of stuff. Then plan to give each of child a copy of all their letters when they move out, which means they’ll have somewhere between 18 and 30 letters to enjoy!
3. Birthday slideshow. With just a few clicks of your mouse, you can create a special slideshow using PowerPoint or a similar computer program. Just pop in photos, size them and add cute captions. You can even add some music if you like. After your child watches it about a zillion times, save it to a CD and pop it in a special place (safe deposit box, fireproof box, etc.) so your child will always have it.
4. Photos. Take as many pictures as you can on birthdays and even make sure you are included in some of them! Later, we can get out old photo albums and the birthday kid’s baby album.
5. Special meal. Some kids love the neighborhood restaurant where they sing Happy Birthday and are given a balloon to take home. Others are content heading to the local fast-food indoor play area and grabbing bites of food in between trips down the slide. Make at least one meal of the birthday child’s day something out of the ordinary!
6. Special treat. Hit the cupcake restaurant or grab huge, frosted cookies from a local baker and share with our friends and neighbors to spread the celebration around. A cheap – and just as special – route would be to make your child’s favorite dessert at home: cookies, cake, banana splits, shakes or ice cream sundaes are always a good bet. Depending on which fruit is in season (or go frozen!), a decadent fruit smoothie made with frozen yogurt could be nice.
7. Party (doesn’t have to be on the actual birthday). If you get a few gray hairs every time you think of planning a birthday party, don’t fret. Options include: a simple party at your place with just a few people, a bash at a park shelter or a celebration where a local children’s party place does all the work.
8. Birthday weekend sleepover with a few special friends (for kids over age seven). Warning: this one is not for the faint of heart! Maybe suggest a maximum of three friends to stay the night at your house on a Friday night around the time of your child’s birthday. Order pizza to make life easy on yourself, grab some movies from the library and have them set up their sleeping bags as far away from your bedroom as possible.